A good mate of mine (Paul Tucker) and I used to say "nonchalanteeeee" when trying to identify a situation, where we wanted to do something - but couldn't.

For example get to a place by a time, or buy something - but didn't have enough money.

We had recognised years before, that at those times - something happened that allowed us to do what we wanted.

Most memorable time for me was late one night, missing the last bus back from A to B with him, starting to walk the 8 miles, thumbing lifts from "passing" cars - that kept on "passing", finally giving up with the thumbing - declaring "nonchalanteeeee" - and within a few minutes of continued walking - now NOT thumbing - a nice man and his wife stopped and gave us a lift - without any request from us.

Maybe we try too hard - and that prevents things happening. But when we relax - forget the stress - we attract success.

Remember.....whenever you're about to get stressed out, about to say "what do we do now??" - calm down.. say "nonchalanteeeeee", and relax - something always turns up!!

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